A prominent point of view shared is also around the psychology where women think that men might opt for these dolls as a safe outlet for paedophilia or rape, this should not be the case they think. Such men don't need a doll they need therapy, people usually grow upon their desires and if such depraved desires have to grow then they will not be restricted to be acted out with a doll, eventually such men will seek pleasure through a real person. How is this good/safe at any level? Apricating the artistic value in these dolls.
Women have also admired the work and detailed craftsmanship that goes into manufacturing of these dolls. Whatever said and done, they are beautiful and is personification of women's beauty. It is as good as sculpting which today has become a great gift and heritage for the modern world. Have a look at how men throughout history and various civilizations have crafted women's beauty to be everlasting, Statue of Lady Sennuwy, Unknown, 1971 B.C.-- 1926 B.C., From the collection of: Museum of Fine Arts, Boston, Aphrodite and Eros, unknown, 100 BC-- 0 AD, From the collection of: Kunsthistorisches Museum Wien, The birth of Venus, Sandro Botticelli, 1483-- 1485, From the collection of: Uffizi Gallery. Throughout cultures it is evident that men are drawn by the beauty that nature has gifted to women and through art they seek to uphold it, fantasize it.
Sex dolls are also a work of art based on a man's vivid imagination which they want to hold for a prolonged period and establish a relation with it. The whole idea of men using an intimate object to do with them what they wants terrifies women, its an opinion born out of fear that men are vile and when it comes to sex, they are self-centred and don't care about how their actions make a woman feel.
They are not willing to accept the fact that women have desires too, they seek pleasure just like men, using a sex doll is a reflection of such thinking where a man has no consideration for what a woman wants in the act of intimacy. There are those who sex pleasure in experimenting and trying new things when it comes to intimacy along with their partners.Some women have not been shy in expressing that they find the idea of using a cheap sex doll as third element while they are with their partners. In my research reading, such ideas I found have mostly been expressed by women who are lesbians/bi sexual.
Use of sex dolls in threesomes came out to be quite a prominent approach when it comes to experimenting along with their partners. Going back to reading the article by Tracy Clark-- Flory, she definitely has decoded the thought in male psychology and longingness for companionship where in they seek to be with a woman who loves them, the whole idea of having such a figure around them at all times and to feel acceptable. Most men out there are definitely seeking companionship, they like to be heard and understood and this self-satisfying idea while have a conversation and relationship with an anime sex doll gets fulfilled they certainly find emotional healing in a way. Her blog features highlights from research done by renowned Ian Kerner, a psychotherapist and sexuality counsellor where he says about men's desires, "can be incredibly elastic and variable" and vulnerable to outside stressors. He says men's desire "is not properly understood or ascribed nearly enough nuance or subtlety". Men most certainly seek "to be desired."
